Many years ago, I remember pontificating there are a few times in life when a man is allowed to howl at the moon without judgment or reservation. One of those times was when he asks his girl to marry him. Another was when his first child is born. I think it’s safe to say it’s also allowed on the day he marries his bride and soon-to-be lifelong partner. For my son, and my oldest … [Read more...] about To My Son on His Wedding Day
Parenting In These Challenging Times – Five Practical Ideas For Dads
Let's face it, parenting in these challenging times can be hard. Admittedly, I have struggled as a dad during this pandemic. I've lost sleep over it even when I'm normally not a worrier or alarmist. I don't want to give in to the apocalyptic hype on the one hand. On the other, I can't pretend this is just a bad flu season. Our kids are now a little older, so we've had some … [Read more...] about Parenting In These Challenging Times – Five Practical Ideas For Dads
Reflecting on the Past, Then Taking These Five Steps, Can Transform Your Future
Reflecting on the Past January is my birthday month. This year also happens to be the start of a new decade. Consequently, I’ve found myself doing a lot of reflecting on life. I’ve been thinking about where I am professionally, what I still want to do in life, how much I have to be thankful for, and a few dozen other big ideas. As you can tell, I tend to overthink things at … [Read more...] about Reflecting on the Past, Then Taking These Five Steps, Can Transform Your Future
Thanksgiving Is Upon Us Dads – Set the Table & the Example
In many ways, Thanksgiving is the best and worst of the annual holidays. It represents family, community, and gratitude for our collective American heritage. (Not to mention historically poor football.) It also signifies the beginning of the Christmas shopping frenzy. Instead of focusing on what Thanksgiving is NOT, let’s quickly discuss what it IS. Thanksgiving is the one … [Read more...] about Thanksgiving Is Upon Us Dads – Set the Table & the Example
How to Battle Career Malaise After It Kicks You in the Crotch
Realizing There’s a Problem I put the truck in park and just stared out the windshield. I wasn’t looking at anything in particular. I just sat there. The stereo was playing music. My work radio was chirping. I didn’t hear any of it. I just sat there staring at nothing in particular. I wondered, “What am I doing here?” After a few moments, I snapped out of it. … [Read more...] about How to Battle Career Malaise After It Kicks You in the Crotch